1 00:00:35,041 --> 00:00:36,713 Shall I take your picture? 2 00:00:36,833 --> 00:00:39,379 Oh no, that sounds a little too touristy. 3 00:00:58,375 --> 00:01:00,586 I'm still a little jetlagged. 4 00:01:00,708 --> 00:01:02,838 Or maybe I woke up too early. 5 00:01:02,958 --> 00:01:06,046 What time did you get up? - Half past six. 6 00:01:06,166 --> 00:01:08,913 You could see everything you wanted to see? 7 00:01:09,625 --> 00:01:12,630 When I bought the tickets, I didn't know not quite what I wanted to see. 8 00:01:12,750 --> 00:01:16,636 And when I got here... I really didn't know. 9 00:01:47,708 --> 00:01:52,666 Because of a bad cold, I stayed almost all winter at home. 10 00:01:52,958 --> 00:01:57,083 I woke up early and felt a little better, 11 00:01:57,541 --> 00:02:02,164 but after a few hours at work, I was tired again. 12 00:02:18,083 --> 00:02:19,463 Hello! 13 00:02:19,583 --> 00:02:21,583 Hi, Mia! 14 00:02:22,958 --> 00:02:25,838 Have you been waiting for a long time? - No, I just arrived. 15 00:02:25,958 --> 00:02:29,088 Sorry, I had a bad night and I just woke up. 16 00:02:29,208 --> 00:02:32,546 No problem. I wanted to call you, but I no longer had a package. 17 00:02:32,666 --> 00:02:35,041 Okay. All right, let's go. 18 00:02:53,541 --> 00:02:55,541 Were you able to sleep a little? 19 00:02:55,833 --> 00:02:58,458 On the plane? No, not really. 20 00:02:59,333 --> 00:03:03,338 Then, these last days in New York, my sleep pattern was weird. 21 00:03:03,458 --> 00:03:07,588 I stayed up until 3 or 4 a.m. and slept until noon. 22 00:03:07,708 --> 00:03:10,296 But have you been there too? How was it for you? 23 00:03:10,416 --> 00:03:12,213 Yes, three months. 24 00:03:12,333 --> 00:03:16,956 I did an internship there. But it was only three days a week. 25 00:03:17,458 --> 00:03:21,291 I often went take a walk in Central Park. 26 00:03:21,833 --> 00:03:25,585 I lived on 88th street, it was right next door. 27 00:03:26,583 --> 00:03:30,333 And I sometimes passed half the time on a bench 28 00:03:30,458 --> 00:03:33,333 to read, to write my diary 29 00:03:33,458 --> 00:03:36,088 or just watch what was happening around me. 30 00:03:36,208 --> 00:03:39,458 And it soothed me. 31 00:03:39,833 --> 00:03:41,796 Unfortunately, I've never been to Central Park. 32 00:03:41,916 --> 00:03:45,266 The weather wasn't great and it often rained. 33 00:03:45,458 --> 00:03:47,296 So, I took the ferry a lot. 34 00:03:47,416 --> 00:03:49,713 Me too. To go to Staten Island! 35 00:03:49,833 --> 00:03:52,446 I was there too! And to Rockaway Beach. 36 00:03:54,291 --> 00:03:57,213 I have often returned where I had already been 37 00:03:57,333 --> 00:03:59,213 because it seemed familiar. 38 00:03:59,333 --> 00:04:03,296 For example, it was difficult to find to eat when I was out walking. 39 00:04:03,416 --> 00:04:06,713 And I have often returned at an Indian's house in the East Village. 40 00:04:06,833 --> 00:04:08,463 Punjabi! - Yes, that's it. 41 00:04:08,583 --> 00:04:11,963 And after a while, I called the owner by his name, 42 00:04:12,083 --> 00:04:16,572 he always greeted me warmly. And it was really nice. 43 00:07:09,458 --> 00:07:11,870 I've had the worst insomnia recently. 44 00:07:12,083 --> 00:07:13,838 In New York too? 45 00:07:13,958 --> 00:07:18,782 Yes, at first I thought it was jetlag, but it really lasts. 46 00:07:19,208 --> 00:07:20,838 I don't understand. 47 00:07:20,958 --> 00:07:23,583 I'm not sleeping well at the moment too. 48 00:07:24,958 --> 00:07:30,416 I don't know. It's strange, those empty days when nothing happens 49 00:07:30,958 --> 00:07:35,983 and I'm just waiting for the day to end so that another one can begin. 50 00:07:37,833 --> 00:07:39,833 Sometimes, 51 00:07:39,958 --> 00:07:42,973 I'm trying to get into bed at 8 or 9 o'clock. 52 00:07:44,416 --> 00:07:47,796 And I'm happy to get up early the next morning 53 00:07:47,916 --> 00:07:52,166 or I hope to get up early to have some energy 54 00:07:52,291 --> 00:07:55,172 to drink coffee and start writing. 55 00:07:55,833 --> 00:07:58,291 I don't know. It's just awful. 56 00:08:16,958 --> 00:08:19,958 Natasha? Do you also want some tea? 57 00:08:24,416 --> 00:08:27,213 Can we take it apart? - Yes, it's very easy. 58 00:08:27,333 --> 00:08:31,291 You just need an Allen key. 59 00:08:33,583 --> 00:08:35,995 It will be easier to transport. 60 00:08:37,333 --> 00:08:41,916 If you want, you can take books. I want to make room. 61 00:08:43,166 --> 00:08:44,338 Are you moving? 62 00:08:44,458 --> 00:08:46,958 No, it's my girlfriend who's leaving. 63 00:08:51,833 --> 00:08:55,451 I think I have too books for you at home. 64 00:08:56,333 --> 00:08:58,713 I think this book is yours. Is it possible? 65 00:08:58,833 --> 00:09:00,833 Let me see. 66 00:09:02,208 --> 00:09:04,046 I take it. I'm calling you. 67 00:09:04,166 --> 00:09:06,166 Great. - See you later. 68 00:09:12,958 --> 00:09:15,833 “Theory of Death: An Introduction.” 69 00:09:18,583 --> 00:09:20,995 I don't think it's my book. 70 00:09:21,958 --> 00:09:23,463 But I'll gladly borrow it from you. 71 00:09:23,583 --> 00:09:27,536 Of course you can take it. I don't know whose it is. 72 00:09:28,083 --> 00:09:30,083 Cool. 73 00:09:30,208 --> 00:09:32,833 How are things going with your master's degree? 74 00:09:35,208 --> 00:09:36,838 Gently. 75 00:09:36,958 --> 00:09:38,958 Me too. 76 00:09:45,291 --> 00:09:49,041 Mia? Now is not the time to flinch. 77 00:09:50,458 --> 00:09:52,088 We wanted to go dancing! 78 00:09:52,208 --> 00:09:55,796 Otherwise, I fall asleep too and I'll be awake all night. 79 00:09:55,916 --> 00:09:57,916 It's safe! 80 00:09:58,166 --> 00:10:00,208 Daniela is counting on you! 81 00:10:01,833 --> 00:10:03,833 Please ! 82 00:10:03,958 --> 00:10:07,838 Then I bring him his latte and I look at his stroller 83 00:10:07,958 --> 00:10:11,241 and I see that her baby is actually a doll. 84 00:10:12,166 --> 00:10:15,958 She takes out the doll and holds her like a real baby. 85 00:10:17,083 --> 00:10:19,166 I didn't know what to do. 86 00:10:19,583 --> 00:10:22,958 And I asked: “How old is your child?” 87 00:10:24,083 --> 00:10:27,958 And she answers "Nine months" and that she breastfeeds him. 88 00:10:28,458 --> 00:10:30,458 And he had a first name? 89 00:10:31,291 --> 00:10:33,291 Erik. 90 00:10:34,583 --> 00:10:39,463 It might seem strange now. Could you lend me some money? 91 00:10:39,583 --> 00:10:41,583 For what? 92 00:10:42,541 --> 00:10:45,958 I have a problem with an old friend, but hey... 93 00:10:47,666 --> 00:10:50,279 How much do you need? - Not much. 94 00:10:50,416 --> 00:10:52,416 Maybe 50? 95 00:10:54,041 --> 00:10:56,453 I don't know if I have this with me. 96 00:10:58,291 --> 00:10:59,838 I can watch. 97 00:10:59,958 --> 00:11:01,338 That would be great. 98 00:11:01,458 --> 00:11:03,458 THANKS. 99 00:11:58,583 --> 00:12:01,330 Sorry, I'm still working. 100 00:12:02,291 --> 00:12:06,458 We reread the tests of the new book. 101 00:12:07,083 --> 00:12:09,093 It's a little messy here. 102 00:12:11,833 --> 00:12:14,666 Anna only warned me yesterday. 103 00:12:20,333 --> 00:12:23,884 I'm thinking. Where did I put his stuff? 104 00:12:30,208 --> 00:12:32,208 Here ! 105 00:12:34,833 --> 00:12:36,843 That's all I have of her. 106 00:12:44,833 --> 00:12:46,833 Have you seen her recently? 107 00:12:47,083 --> 00:12:50,634 No, I was not in Vienna. We just wrote to each other. 108 00:12:50,833 --> 00:12:54,463 As you see, everything is there. I could have put it all together before, 109 00:12:54,583 --> 00:12:57,062 but she only called me yesterday. 110 00:12:57,208 --> 00:13:00,958 That's Anna. Always everything at the last minute. 111 00:13:01,333 --> 00:13:03,333 Yes, that's it. 112 00:13:04,666 --> 00:13:07,882 But what are you doing here? Visiting? 113 00:13:08,333 --> 00:13:10,678 And you, are we visiting you? - Yeah. 114 00:13:10,833 --> 00:13:12,338 And do you like it here? 115 00:13:12,458 --> 00:13:16,458 She was talking about a purse. Is there one? 116 00:13:16,583 --> 00:13:18,583 Yeah, the wallet... 117 00:13:21,333 --> 00:13:24,088 No idea. How can we lose a wallet? 118 00:13:24,208 --> 00:13:27,588 So there's no wallet? - No, that's what I just said. 119 00:13:27,708 --> 00:13:29,171 Here we go ? 120 00:13:29,291 --> 00:13:31,583 THANKS. - It was nothing ! 121 00:13:38,416 --> 00:13:41,463 No wonder that you didn't want to go. 122 00:13:41,583 --> 00:13:45,416 It's every time so rude to this guy. 123 00:13:46,166 --> 00:13:48,921 My friend Anna had a publishing house with him 124 00:13:49,041 --> 00:13:51,252 and they argued to death. 125 00:13:51,583 --> 00:13:56,474 She didn't want to work with him anymore and she returned to Vienna. 126 00:13:57,708 --> 00:13:59,713 What did they publish? 127 00:13:59,833 --> 00:14:01,833 Practical guides. 128 00:14:02,041 --> 00:14:04,041 Seriously ? 129 00:14:04,833 --> 00:14:06,833 Ah, it's him! 130 00:16:09,208 --> 00:16:10,713 Back in Vienna. 131 00:16:10,833 --> 00:16:15,463 I couldn't sleep again neither to fall asleep nor to sleep enough 132 00:16:15,583 --> 00:16:17,963 and even less as soon as it was light outside. 133 00:16:18,083 --> 00:16:20,763 Summer has passed, the nights get longer, 134 00:16:20,958 --> 00:16:25,588 the moon is low, and when I walk in the street, I'm like a witch. 135 00:16:25,708 --> 00:16:28,321 I wanted to leave the city again. 136 00:17:08,291 --> 00:17:10,291 Hello Anna. 137 00:17:12,083 --> 00:17:14,093 I'm back. You too ? 138 00:17:18,833 --> 00:17:20,171 Yeah, it's okay. 139 00:17:20,291 --> 00:17:22,435 Do you want me to come by later? 140 00:17:26,833 --> 00:17:29,583 Yes, with your Berlin stuff. 141 00:17:35,583 --> 00:17:37,583 Yes, that suits me. 142 00:17:38,166 --> 00:17:40,166 Is everything okay with you? 143 00:17:45,833 --> 00:17:48,041 GOOD. See you later. 144 00:18:55,291 --> 00:18:58,708 It’s great to see you again! - It's been a long time ! 145 00:18:59,833 --> 00:19:02,714 How was your vacation? - Too good. 146 00:19:03,083 --> 00:19:06,835 I'll be there right away. You can wait for me on the balcony. 147 00:19:26,583 --> 00:19:28,583 THANKS ! 148 00:19:39,666 --> 00:19:42,279 Sorry for making you meet him. 149 00:19:42,916 --> 00:19:45,671 I knew you gave him away a kebab. 150 00:19:45,791 --> 00:19:47,296 It was great. 151 00:19:47,416 --> 00:19:49,583 You should have seen his face. 152 00:19:49,708 --> 00:19:51,708 And all the sauce everywhere. 153 00:19:51,958 --> 00:19:54,236 Holy cow, I would have liked to see that. 154 00:19:56,166 --> 00:19:59,083 The wallet... I don't know. 155 00:19:59,666 --> 00:20:01,588 I found it here! 156 00:20:01,708 --> 00:20:03,986 Sorry, I forgot to tell you. 157 00:20:04,291 --> 00:20:07,708 GOOD. I thought he took it. 158 00:20:07,833 --> 00:20:10,583 No, no. I have it here. Sorry ! 159 00:20:11,666 --> 00:20:13,838 I am a little off the mark at the moment. 160 00:20:13,958 --> 00:20:16,838 There's so much going on and I have so much to do. 161 00:20:16,958 --> 00:20:18,958 It's really stressful. 162 00:20:21,916 --> 00:20:23,926 Actually, what time is it? 163 00:20:26,208 --> 00:20:27,421 Minus a quarter... 164 00:20:27,541 --> 00:20:29,541 It's crazy. 165 00:20:31,916 --> 00:20:36,606 Do you want to take a walk? I don't have been outside again today. 166 00:21:03,083 --> 00:21:04,296 I have to think 167 00:21:04,416 --> 00:21:06,838 what I'm going to do with the publishing house. 168 00:21:06,958 --> 00:21:09,833 I thought you wanted to stop him. 169 00:21:10,083 --> 00:21:13,666 Me, yes, but Manu wants to continue. 170 00:21:14,083 --> 00:21:16,083 I don't really care. 171 00:21:17,583 --> 00:21:22,340 I think you can publish books more captivating than practical. 172 00:21:22,708 --> 00:21:24,588 Yes, for sure. 173 00:21:24,708 --> 00:21:27,088 I don't understand how could I find that interesting. 174 00:21:27,208 --> 00:21:29,208 And what's more with this guy... 175 00:21:32,041 --> 00:21:35,963 I want to work for a publisher who does interesting things. 176 00:21:36,083 --> 00:21:38,583 And also publish it myself. 177 00:21:39,541 --> 00:21:41,541 Yes, that looks good to me. 178 00:21:42,333 --> 00:21:45,541 I'm giving myself a little more time. 179 00:21:46,333 --> 00:21:49,088 I think it's a full moon today. 180 00:21:49,208 --> 00:21:51,333 The harvest moon. 181 00:21:51,583 --> 00:21:53,838 I think it's called that. 182 00:21:53,958 --> 00:21:58,041 It's the full moon closest to the beginning of autumn. 183 00:21:58,166 --> 00:22:00,333 It's the equinox. 184 00:22:00,458 --> 00:22:03,463 Yes, the days are beginning really need to be shortened. 185 00:22:03,583 --> 00:22:05,671 It gets dark a lot earlier. 186 00:22:05,791 --> 00:22:07,791 Really. 187 00:25:10,458 --> 00:25:12,458 Mia! 188 00:25:12,666 --> 00:25:13,963 Hi ! 189 00:25:14,083 --> 00:25:16,833 Sorry. I was shopping. 190 00:25:16,958 --> 00:25:20,338 What did you buy? - Vegetables at the market. 191 00:25:20,458 --> 00:25:21,671 Have you been waiting for a long time? 192 00:25:21,791 --> 00:25:26,333 No, I just arrived. But I was a little... lost. 193 00:25:26,458 --> 00:25:29,540 You don't live there? - No, not here. In front. 194 00:25:31,208 --> 00:25:33,208 How was your trip? 195 00:25:34,583 --> 00:25:36,583 Harder days come. 196 00:25:36,833 --> 00:25:40,958 Revocable suspended sentence becomes visible on the horizon. 197 00:25:41,416 --> 00:25:43,005 You will soon have to tie your shoes 198 00:25:43,125 --> 00:25:46,333 and push back farm dogs in the polders. 199 00:25:46,666 --> 00:25:48,666 I can't read any more. 200 00:25:54,708 --> 00:25:59,532 I don't know him at all. I don't have never read Ingeborg Bachmann before. 201 00:25:59,916 --> 00:26:02,083 A friend gave it to me. 202 00:26:02,666 --> 00:26:07,083 I find it so hard. I read a few lines and I give up. 203 00:26:11,083 --> 00:26:16,242 I wanted to read it this summer, and then I said to myself: that will wait until the fall. 204 00:26:17,041 --> 00:26:19,788 Do you think she wrote it in the fall? 205 00:26:20,166 --> 00:26:22,166 Maybe. 206 00:26:39,083 --> 00:26:41,294 Don't you want to go out? 207 00:26:46,166 --> 00:26:47,796 Do you want me to take a photo of you? 208 00:26:47,916 --> 00:26:50,864 No, thank you. It's a little too touristy. 209 00:26:51,208 --> 00:26:53,208 When do you have to leave tomorrow? 210 00:26:53,708 --> 00:26:58,291 I have to leave at 9:30. The seminar starts at 10 a.m. 211 00:27:00,333 --> 00:27:04,487 We'll see. Students who I know from Berlin are there too. 212 00:27:05,083 --> 00:27:08,458 A kind of exchange between Berlin and Vienna. 213 00:27:08,833 --> 00:27:10,463 Natasha is there too. 214 00:27:10,583 --> 00:27:13,531 Whom I met in Berlin? - That's it. 215 00:27:14,291 --> 00:27:16,838 Do you think we can go back? in the church? 216 00:27:16,958 --> 00:27:18,968 I don't know. Do you want to see? 217 00:27:27,833 --> 00:27:31,041 Do you want some tea? - Yes, with pleasure. THANKS. 218 00:28:08,583 --> 00:28:11,671 Daniela? Does Natascha could come and sleep tonight? 219 00:28:11,791 --> 00:28:13,588 What ? 220 00:28:13,708 --> 00:28:18,916 Natascha wrote that her plan to sleep fell through. 221 00:28:19,041 --> 00:28:22,324 Can she sleep here tonight and tomorrow? 222 00:28:23,541 --> 00:28:25,541 Okay. - Yes ? 223 00:28:26,041 --> 00:28:26,963 Yes, OK. 224 00:28:27,083 --> 00:28:29,083 On ? 225 00:29:02,833 --> 00:29:06,546 I don't like jam. - Even apricot jam? 226 00:29:06,666 --> 00:29:09,791 No. - Even homemade? 227 00:29:11,083 --> 00:29:13,093 What do you have planned today? 228 00:29:14,458 --> 00:29:16,583 A job interview. 229 00:29:17,166 --> 00:29:18,963 Thrilling! - Where? 230 00:29:19,083 --> 00:29:24,458 A job at the museum. Exhibition installation. 231 00:29:24,666 --> 00:29:28,485 Seems good to me. - It's not that exciting, I think. 232 00:29:29,291 --> 00:29:31,291 What kind of museum? 233 00:29:32,041 --> 00:29:34,041 An art museum. 234 00:29:37,458 --> 00:29:41,143 By the way, what is it the subject of your master's thesis? 235 00:29:42,833 --> 00:29:46,583 It's about techniques trauma therapies. 236 00:29:46,708 --> 00:29:48,588 But... 237 00:29:48,708 --> 00:29:52,041 I kind of left that on the back burner. 238 00:29:52,333 --> 00:29:57,791 So much has happened recently. I can't concentrate on it. 239 00:29:57,916 --> 00:29:59,796 What do you mean by “put on hold”? 240 00:29:59,916 --> 00:30:03,065 Maybe I won't go at the end of my studies. 241 00:30:04,458 --> 00:30:06,338 But you still go to the seminary? 242 00:30:06,458 --> 00:30:09,791 No. Haven't I told you yet? 243 00:30:10,958 --> 00:30:13,213 What are you going to do in Vienna? 244 00:30:13,333 --> 00:30:15,916 The university paid for the trip 245 00:30:17,333 --> 00:30:21,333 and I wanted to see someone here 246 00:30:21,458 --> 00:30:24,473 that I knew in Berlin and who lives in Vienna. 247 00:30:25,166 --> 00:30:28,458 Yeah. I need to talk to him. 248 00:30:29,083 --> 00:30:32,338 And I thought there was things to see in Vienna. 249 00:30:32,458 --> 00:30:34,468 Maybe I'll stay. 250 00:30:35,583 --> 00:30:38,062 Can you advise me something? 251 00:30:40,458 --> 00:30:43,458 You could see the Sissi Museum. 252 00:30:44,083 --> 00:30:46,083 Sisi? 253 00:30:47,041 --> 00:30:49,338 This is my favorite museum in Vienna. 254 00:30:49,458 --> 00:30:51,088 Is it on Sissi? 255 00:30:51,208 --> 00:30:53,958 In fact, it's a real fetish museum. 256 00:30:54,083 --> 00:30:57,213 That's all about his personal items and his body. 257 00:30:57,333 --> 00:31:00,817 You can see his clothes, his cocaine syringe, 258 00:31:01,166 --> 00:31:03,166 its fitness equipment, 259 00:31:03,291 --> 00:31:06,666 and sometimes even they show his baby teeth. 260 00:31:11,083 --> 00:31:13,083 I highly recommend it to you. 261 00:32:06,541 --> 00:32:08,421 Are they fish? 262 00:32:08,541 --> 00:32:09,838 What then? 263 00:32:09,958 --> 00:32:12,458 Those dark spots over there. 264 00:32:14,208 --> 00:32:16,208 Or algae? 265 00:32:16,833 --> 00:32:18,833 But it’s moving, right? 266 00:32:19,458 --> 00:32:22,272 Yeah, they're fish! It's crazy. 267 00:32:24,083 --> 00:32:27,421 Actually how it was your job interview? 268 00:32:27,541 --> 00:32:29,541 Actually, pretty good. 269 00:32:31,083 --> 00:32:33,416 They were all very nice. 270 00:32:34,791 --> 00:32:37,916 I'm so...undecided deep down. 271 00:32:38,166 --> 00:32:39,921 I introduced myself 272 00:32:40,041 --> 00:32:42,671 to introduce myself because I need money. 273 00:32:42,791 --> 00:32:47,541 But it's a stupid job. A livelihood. 274 00:32:47,666 --> 00:32:50,046 I would like to do something more interesting. 275 00:32:50,166 --> 00:32:52,046 You don't believe Would you like it? 276 00:32:52,166 --> 00:32:55,784 Maybe it can be okay, since it's temporary. 277 00:32:58,041 --> 00:33:01,994 But it must be cool to work in an art museum. 278 00:33:02,708 --> 00:33:06,213 I visited lots of art museums in Berlin this summer 279 00:33:06,333 --> 00:33:11,833 and I had an amazing experience at the Alte Nationalgalerie. 280 00:33:12,333 --> 00:33:16,291 There was a table by the painter Fritz von Uhde. 281 00:33:16,583 --> 00:33:19,416 Entitled “Little Princess of the Moor”. 282 00:33:19,708 --> 00:33:22,588 It shows a little girl, Aegean perhaps six years old, 283 00:33:22,708 --> 00:33:27,546 She stands in the field, dressed simply, looking at the painter. 284 00:33:27,666 --> 00:33:30,546 And it moved me so much that I started to cry. 285 00:33:30,666 --> 00:33:32,743 Did you start crying? - Yes. 286 00:33:33,791 --> 00:33:36,171 I still don't really know why. 287 00:33:36,291 --> 00:33:37,963 But it's beautiful 288 00:33:38,083 --> 00:33:41,165 if he made you react like that. - Absolutely ! 289 00:33:41,958 --> 00:33:46,713 It's rare to show your emotions at the museum. I wondered why. 290 00:33:46,833 --> 00:33:48,833 Yes, it's true. 291 00:33:53,083 --> 00:33:55,083 Mia, what are you doing? 292 00:33:57,208 --> 00:33:59,208 Come on. 293 00:34:11,041 --> 00:34:13,041 Can I try? 294 00:34:16,041 --> 00:34:19,056 What should I do? - Actually, nothing. 295 00:34:20,666 --> 00:34:25,458 To begin with, you can imagine the pendulum moves back and forth. 296 00:34:28,291 --> 00:34:32,541 Am I imagining it or is it moving on its own? Or should I move it? 297 00:34:32,833 --> 00:34:38,833 You move it through your body, with your micro-muscles in your fingers. 298 00:34:41,083 --> 00:34:44,366 I use it to communicate to my subconscious. 299 00:34:44,916 --> 00:34:47,088 It's important not to make it move consciously. 300 00:34:47,208 --> 00:34:50,022 I believe my subconscious does nothing. 301 00:34:51,041 --> 00:34:54,916 Try... I don't know how to explain. 302 00:34:55,041 --> 00:34:58,083 Try to be a little more relaxed. 303 00:35:04,583 --> 00:35:06,583 Try from right to left. 304 00:35:10,833 --> 00:35:13,333 He moves a little. 305 00:35:13,958 --> 00:35:16,906 But not from right to left. - Diagonally. 306 00:35:20,833 --> 00:35:22,833 In a circle, it works too. 307 00:35:25,291 --> 00:35:27,458 Do you feel it a little? 308 00:35:27,666 --> 00:35:31,833 Yes, but I have the impression that I move it voluntarily. 309 00:35:33,083 --> 00:35:35,088 And then, can I ask a question? 310 00:35:35,208 --> 00:35:37,958 Yes. First you should ask 311 00:35:38,083 --> 00:35:42,958 which means "yes", "no", "maybe" or "no answer". 312 00:35:43,958 --> 00:35:46,546 Then the pendulum moves in different directions. 313 00:35:46,666 --> 00:35:49,145 And then you can ask your question. 314 00:35:49,583 --> 00:35:51,583 What does “yes” mean? 315 00:35:54,083 --> 00:35:55,963 Right-left? 316 00:35:56,083 --> 00:35:58,083 There is no "yes". 317 00:35:58,541 --> 00:36:00,838 Maybe that there is just “no answer”. 318 00:36:00,958 --> 00:36:03,102 What does "no response" mean? 319 00:36:09,208 --> 00:36:10,963 Where did you get this pendulum? 320 00:36:11,083 --> 00:36:12,963 It's a gift from a friend. 321 00:36:13,083 --> 00:36:18,083 But I learned with a hypnotherapist. 322 00:36:18,208 --> 00:36:20,546 Maybe you know her too. 323 00:36:20,666 --> 00:36:22,713 But I don't remember his name anymore. 324 00:36:22,833 --> 00:36:25,000 She also does... 325 00:36:26,083 --> 00:36:29,338 trauma therapy with tapping, in ten minutes. 326 00:36:29,458 --> 00:36:32,671 10 minutes? - I do this during my lunch break. 327 00:36:32,791 --> 00:36:34,713 That’s probably the idea! 328 00:36:34,833 --> 00:36:36,046 We do it like this... 329 00:36:36,166 --> 00:36:39,041 Even if... even if... 330 00:36:39,541 --> 00:36:44,463 I had this bad experience, I accept myself deeply and completely. 331 00:36:44,583 --> 00:36:47,263 I accept myself deeply and totally. 332 00:36:49,208 --> 00:36:51,486 Then like this on the chest. 333 00:36:54,583 --> 00:36:56,583 And maybe there too. 334 00:37:00,916 --> 00:37:02,296 Wow, it works! 335 00:37:02,416 --> 00:37:04,761 And you tap for ten minutes? 336 00:37:05,958 --> 00:37:09,041 The whole session lasts ten minutes. 337 00:37:09,166 --> 00:37:11,916 And then you notice... 338 00:37:13,291 --> 00:37:15,005 OK, I have a headache... 339 00:37:15,125 --> 00:37:19,421 even if I have a migraine, I accept myself deeply and completely. 340 00:37:19,541 --> 00:37:21,588 Hey! It’s moving and I didn’t ask for anything. 341 00:37:21,708 --> 00:37:23,505 You can see this on YouTube. 342 00:37:23,625 --> 00:37:25,625 You're cheating, Natasha! 343 00:37:27,541 --> 00:37:30,824 There is also this EMDR trauma therapy 344 00:37:31,041 --> 00:37:32,755 who says that when a trauma 345 00:37:32,875 --> 00:37:36,708 can no longer be processed through language... 346 00:37:38,708 --> 00:37:40,708 It can be solved by... 347 00:37:42,541 --> 00:37:44,541 What's going on? 348 00:37:44,708 --> 00:37:46,708 Trauma is coming! 349 00:37:49,333 --> 00:37:52,588 Through bilateral stimulation. Eye movement, for example. 350 00:37:52,708 --> 00:37:55,671 It's when you move eyes from side to side? 351 00:37:55,791 --> 00:37:58,963 What I find funny, it's that the inventor... 352 00:37:59,083 --> 00:38:03,416 It was an American psychology student... 353 00:38:04,416 --> 00:38:07,458 One day, she was walking in a park... 354 00:38:07,583 --> 00:38:10,713 She had cancer and tried to change his mind 355 00:38:10,833 --> 00:38:14,088 moving his eyes very quickly from left to right 356 00:38:14,208 --> 00:38:17,463 and she felt strange relieved and less anxious. 357 00:38:17,583 --> 00:38:20,416 In a park? - Yes, while walking. 358 00:38:20,541 --> 00:38:23,154 Was she looking from side to side? 359 00:38:23,958 --> 00:38:25,546 How many times should we say to ourselves: 360 00:38:25,666 --> 00:38:30,557 I have a problem. I solve it moving your eyes from left to right. 361 00:38:37,458 --> 00:38:41,213 I think I'm going to go now at the party. Do you want to come? 362 00:38:41,333 --> 00:38:43,171 An afternoon party? 363 00:38:43,291 --> 00:38:45,502 Yes, it's a university thing. 364 00:38:46,208 --> 00:38:48,208 Do you know where it is? 365 00:38:49,708 --> 00:38:52,463 It's not far. Barely half an hour. 366 00:38:52,583 --> 00:38:54,338 Are you coming with me? - Yes, gladly. 367 00:38:54,458 --> 00:38:57,272 Cool. I'm sure there will be something to drink. 368 00:39:06,791 --> 00:39:08,630 Hello. Enter. 369 00:39:08,750 --> 00:39:11,796 Welcome. I'm glad you could come. 370 00:39:11,916 --> 00:39:14,416 Hi. Daniela. - Natasha. 371 00:39:14,541 --> 00:39:19,130 You can hang your stuff here and please take off your shoes. 372 00:39:19,250 --> 00:39:21,796 Do you have to take off your shoes? - Yes. 373 00:39:29,125 --> 00:39:31,336 Do you want to drink something? 374 00:39:33,333 --> 00:39:35,880 Nice to see you and that you're here. Welcome to the party. 375 00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:38,814 Nice to see you too. It's been a long time. 376 00:39:48,083 --> 00:39:49,796 How do you know each other? 377 00:39:49,916 --> 00:39:54,539 No problem, I speak German. We met in Philadelphia. 378 00:39:54,750 --> 00:39:58,971 Thanks to Mike, actually. - We studied there. A mutual friend. 379 00:39:59,625 --> 00:40:02,416 And we saw each other several times in Berlin. 380 00:40:02,541 --> 00:40:05,921 Do you know where there is something to drink? - Yes, in the kitchen. 381 00:40:06,041 --> 00:40:08,671 There are schnapps, beers, variegated white wine. 382 00:40:08,791 --> 00:40:10,546 A white wine! 383 00:40:10,666 --> 00:40:12,666 Schnapps? White wine? Okay. 384 00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:18,291 Are you both from Vienna? - Me, yes. 385 00:40:19,541 --> 00:40:22,005 Cool. Vienna is my favorite city. 386 00:40:22,125 --> 00:40:24,546 I come from Berlin. - I really like Berlin too. 387 00:40:24,666 --> 00:40:26,810 Especially the Brandenburg Gate. 388 00:40:28,250 --> 00:40:31,166 Do you live here? - No, I'm just visiting. 389 00:40:31,291 --> 00:40:34,916 I studied in Vienna and I come there from time to time. 390 00:40:36,291 --> 00:40:38,291 That's it. 391 00:40:38,791 --> 00:40:43,546 Have you ever been to the Globes Museum? You must surely know. 392 00:40:43,666 --> 00:40:48,255 This is my favorite museum here. Absolutely go for it. It's in the center. 393 00:40:48,375 --> 00:40:52,998 There is a superb collection of globes. And even lunar globes. 394 00:40:53,375 --> 00:40:58,505 It's right next to the Esperanto Museum. 395 00:40:58,625 --> 00:41:02,243 You can do both on the same day. - It's practical. 396 00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:10,791 There is Café Jelinek in the 6th... I don't know if you know... 397 00:41:11,791 --> 00:41:14,755 This is where we eat the best cakes... 398 00:41:14,875 --> 00:41:16,755 I'm only here until tomorrow. 399 00:41:16,875 --> 00:41:21,163 Really, cakes are 'to die for' as they say in English. 400 00:41:28,666 --> 00:41:30,666 I'm going to the bathroom. 401 00:41:33,416 --> 00:41:36,416 Schönbrunn... I give him some tips. 402 00:41:36,916 --> 00:41:38,916 You can avoid Schönbrunn. 403 00:41:39,375 --> 00:41:46,166 It's this huge castle in the 13th. It's very touristy and crowded. 404 00:41:46,291 --> 00:41:49,671 But there is a park nearby... I already talked to Mia about it... 405 00:41:49,791 --> 00:41:53,342 Natascha has to leave tomorrow... - I already told him. 406 00:41:54,166 --> 00:41:55,880 Never mind ! 407 00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:59,416 I recommend Roter Berg in the 13th. 408 00:41:59,541 --> 00:42:01,546 How do you already know each other? 409 00:42:01,666 --> 00:42:04,755 By a mutual friend when I was studying in Philadelphia. 410 00:42:04,875 --> 00:42:07,171 An architect. Finally, he became one. 411 00:42:07,291 --> 00:42:09,750 When was the last time you saw him? 412 00:42:09,875 --> 00:42:12,375 God, it's been forever. 413 00:42:14,416 --> 00:42:16,627 I have to go call. 414 00:42:17,250 --> 00:42:20,416 I saw him a few weeks ago. 415 00:42:30,041 --> 00:42:32,041 Can I roll a cigarette? 416 00:42:32,541 --> 00:42:34,541 Of course. 417 00:42:41,250 --> 00:42:43,541 So, do you want to go? 418 00:42:44,541 --> 00:42:47,125 Yes, I think we won't be long. 419 00:42:48,166 --> 00:42:49,671 Are you still staying? 420 00:42:49,791 --> 00:42:52,291 Yes, I think I'll stay a bit. 421 00:42:53,416 --> 00:42:56,166 Do you have the key? You arrive when you want. 422 00:42:56,291 --> 00:42:58,291 All right. 423 00:43:01,041 --> 00:43:04,541 See you later. - Have fun. Ciao. 424 00:43:38,416 --> 00:43:40,416 Daniela? 425 00:43:41,625 --> 00:43:43,750 Do you also want some tea? 426 00:43:44,041 --> 00:43:46,041 No, not now. 427 00:43:49,041 --> 00:43:50,630 Actually, I don't want one either. 428 00:43:50,750 --> 00:43:54,368 Would you like another beer? - Yes, with pleasure. 429 00:43:55,791 --> 00:43:59,375 I also have Sturm. Do you like that? 430 00:43:59,625 --> 00:44:04,625 What is this ? - It is a young wine. 431 00:44:04,916 --> 00:44:08,416 Like Federweisser? - I believe. 432 00:44:29,250 --> 00:44:32,064 About money that you lent me... 433 00:44:32,416 --> 00:44:36,570 I don't have it on me yet, but I'll give it to you tomorrow, OK? 434 00:44:36,916 --> 00:44:38,505 Yeah, okay. 435 00:44:38,625 --> 00:44:41,375 I didn't know how to talk to you about it. 436 00:44:41,541 --> 00:44:44,291 It would be good if I can have it tomorrow. 437 00:44:44,416 --> 00:44:48,916 Yes, I haven't forgotten. You'll get it tomorrow. 438 00:46:12,791 --> 00:46:16,811 What was the end of the party like? - Ah, you're not sleeping? 439 00:46:18,041 --> 00:46:21,726 The party? It wasn't bad. I took a walk afterwards. 440 00:46:33,041 --> 00:46:36,791 Do you have enough coverage? - Yes, great. 441 00:46:37,291 --> 00:46:39,375 Good night. - Sleep well. 442 00:47:28,666 --> 00:47:31,130 What was the end of the party like? 443 00:47:31,250 --> 00:47:33,416 A bit strange. 444 00:47:33,541 --> 00:47:36,255 I don't know. The atmosphere was a little weird. 445 00:47:36,375 --> 00:47:38,375 I found it too. 446 00:47:38,541 --> 00:47:40,541 The guy was weird too. 447 00:47:42,375 --> 00:47:46,666 I was tired of being around people. - No worries. 448 00:47:51,125 --> 00:47:54,041 I had croissants. Do you want one? 449 00:47:55,291 --> 00:47:58,041 I take one with me. I have to go. 450 00:47:59,250 --> 00:48:01,671 But what was really cool, 451 00:48:01,791 --> 00:48:04,605 Ted tried to teach me the hi-hat. 452 00:48:05,166 --> 00:48:07,541 He learned it by himself. 453 00:48:07,666 --> 00:48:09,666 Do you know how to do it? 454 00:48:10,041 --> 00:48:13,041 A little. I didn't understand everything. 455 00:48:13,166 --> 00:48:15,166 Hey, you're doing it well! 456 00:48:18,916 --> 00:48:20,916 Are you leaving already? 457 00:48:21,166 --> 00:48:25,255 Yes, I'm in a bit of a hurry. I have to see someone before my train. 458 00:48:25,375 --> 00:48:26,880 Aren't you having a coffee? 459 00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:29,796 I wouldn't have said no, but I don't have time. 460 00:48:29,916 --> 00:48:32,797 I'll get you a croissant. - Yes of course. 461 00:48:33,541 --> 00:48:37,494 Do you know how to get there? - Yes, he lives near the station. 462 00:48:38,541 --> 00:48:40,953 Thank you for the welcome. - My pleasure. 463 00:48:41,375 --> 00:48:43,375 Hi. Have a good trip. 464 00:48:43,791 --> 00:48:46,739 See you soon. Maybe next week? 465 00:49:28,291 --> 00:49:30,291 Not bad. 466 00:50:25,291 --> 00:50:27,005 It smells good! 467 00:50:27,125 --> 00:50:29,541 Will you grab my plates? 468 00:50:40,125 --> 00:50:42,791 Is it like that? - A little more. 469 00:50:42,916 --> 00:50:44,916 THANKS. 470 00:50:56,791 --> 00:51:03,375 Now I still have to write... a chapter on rites of passage. 471 00:51:05,375 --> 00:51:08,546 There, my main reference, he is a French ethnologist 472 00:51:08,666 --> 00:51:13,916 who wrote a theory on rites... of passage. 473 00:51:15,666 --> 00:51:20,750 In fact, these are the passages throughout the phases of life. 474 00:51:22,541 --> 00:51:25,375 He looked at different cultures 475 00:51:27,041 --> 00:51:32,166 and divided these passages, these rites, in three phases. 476 00:51:32,916 --> 00:51:36,416 The first is that of separation, 477 00:51:36,541 --> 00:51:41,666 then the transformation phase or liminal phase, 478 00:51:41,791 --> 00:51:46,041 and the third, that of reintegration. 479 00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:51,666 In fact, there is a person in a community 480 00:51:53,375 --> 00:51:55,666 who is experiencing a passage. 481 00:51:55,791 --> 00:51:58,255 But it also concerns all members of the community, 482 00:51:58,375 --> 00:52:01,750 who must reorganize by adopting its status. 483 00:52:02,416 --> 00:52:05,666 In connection with... 484 00:52:06,166 --> 00:52:11,296 In fact, it is mainly the middle phase which interests me. I'm not sure 485 00:52:11,416 --> 00:52:15,421 if I adhere to this distribution. But the middle phase... 486 00:52:15,541 --> 00:52:21,750 The transition phase? - Yes, or transformation. 487 00:52:24,291 --> 00:52:27,750 In relation to death, that means... 488 00:52:27,875 --> 00:52:30,916 But it is also the phase with rituals? 489 00:52:31,375 --> 00:52:34,880 No, in fact there are rituals in each of the phases. 490 00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:39,291 For example, this transition phase. How to say... 491 00:52:40,541 --> 00:52:44,875 In ancient cultures, it lasted perhaps seven days. 492 00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:49,541 Where the dead begin their journey in the underworld 493 00:52:49,666 --> 00:52:55,791 and the living cover themselves with earth and tear their hair out. 494 00:52:55,916 --> 00:53:01,075 As I said, I find these phases... I don't completely understand them. 495 00:53:01,291 --> 00:53:02,921 Related to today... 496 00:53:03,041 --> 00:53:09,166 In any case, the middle phase is... really marked by this uncertainty. 497 00:53:09,291 --> 00:53:13,546 Where people no longer know what they belong and who they are. 498 00:53:13,666 --> 00:53:15,875 You need to find your bearings. 499 00:53:16,791 --> 00:53:21,250 Reinstatement would correspond 500 00:53:21,416 --> 00:53:25,041 at the funeral meal or eating together 501 00:53:25,166 --> 00:53:29,125 and to reconnect with life. 502 00:53:29,916 --> 00:53:35,041 I like it. I think I'm still in a liminal phase. 503 00:53:37,666 --> 00:53:41,130 How do you get to the last phase? Through this ritual? 504 00:53:41,250 --> 00:53:44,625 Yes, ritual can help. 505 00:53:45,041 --> 00:53:51,375 It is symbolic, but also real. 506 00:53:53,125 --> 00:53:56,880 For example, if the deceased is transported to the cemetery, 507 00:53:57,000 --> 00:54:01,296 in some cultures, we must place feet in a certain direction. 508 00:54:01,416 --> 00:54:06,296 In the direction of the grave. So that the deceased cannot return. 509 00:54:06,416 --> 00:54:08,416 It just helps. 510 00:54:08,666 --> 00:54:11,416 The way we... 511 00:54:12,125 --> 00:54:18,000 But probably everyone still has to find its own way. 512 00:54:19,041 --> 00:54:22,375 I think these are nice rules. 513 00:54:28,791 --> 00:54:31,791 I would love to go back. - Come with me! 514 00:54:32,041 --> 00:54:37,041 That would be nice, but I have to first see with this job. 515 00:54:37,416 --> 00:54:39,916 You can always sleep at my place. 516 00:54:41,166 --> 00:54:43,875 OK, I think I have to go. 517 00:56:02,250 --> 00:56:04,130 Hey, this is the book I told you about. 518 00:56:04,250 --> 00:56:06,250 School for idiots 519 00:56:06,666 --> 00:56:08,671 I don't remember not good about the story. 520 00:56:08,791 --> 00:56:13,079 A hunger strike in the 70s in front of the Cathedral? 521 00:56:13,791 --> 00:56:15,916 A friend of my mother 522 00:56:16,041 --> 00:56:20,416 who taught in Moscow in the mid-70s, 523 00:56:20,541 --> 00:56:23,750 met Sasha Sokolov. 524 00:56:24,541 --> 00:56:25,963 They fell in love, 525 00:56:26,083 --> 00:56:29,299 but he couldn't leave the country with her. 526 00:56:30,291 --> 00:56:34,666 She brought her manuscript back to Vienna. 527 00:56:34,791 --> 00:56:36,671 Did she want to translate it? 528 00:56:36,791 --> 00:56:38,171 No... - Where to publish it? 529 00:56:38,291 --> 00:56:41,916 She found a publisher in New York. 530 00:56:43,541 --> 00:56:46,875 Because it could be published there? - That's it. 531 00:56:47,666 --> 00:56:55,625 And she started a hunger strike in front of the Cathedral 532 00:56:55,750 --> 00:56:58,500 to obtain a visa for him. 533 00:56:58,916 --> 00:57:02,166 And surprisingly, it worked. 534 00:57:02,291 --> 00:57:07,541 Even Kreisky stepped up and he was able to get out. 535 00:57:07,666 --> 00:57:09,810 Thanks to the hunger strike? 536 00:57:10,875 --> 00:57:13,921 It's crazy. That would no longer be possible today. 537 00:57:14,041 --> 00:57:15,713 Someone get a visa 538 00:57:15,833 --> 00:57:19,384 thanks to a hunger strike, on Stephansplatz. 539 00:57:22,541 --> 00:57:27,166 Then he really came to Vienna. 540 00:57:27,291 --> 00:57:30,916 His parents tried to stop him 541 00:57:31,541 --> 00:57:37,041 because for them, it was almost the shame of their son going to the West. 542 00:57:38,000 --> 00:57:40,291 He did it anyway. 543 00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:46,250 They got married and she got pregnant right after. 544 00:57:46,791 --> 00:57:51,375 But he followed the path of his book in the United States. 545 00:57:51,916 --> 00:57:56,250 Leaving her with their son. 546 00:57:56,791 --> 00:57:58,791 Oh yes ? Wow! 547 00:58:01,375 --> 00:58:03,505 And do you know her personally? 548 00:58:03,625 --> 00:58:06,541 Yes, I recently spoke with her on the phone. 549 00:58:06,666 --> 00:58:12,026 That's why I bought the book. I've wanted to read it for a long time. 550 00:58:17,750 --> 00:58:22,541 Maybe she's at home right now. She lives not far away. 551 00:58:22,666 --> 00:58:25,212 Does she live in the neighborhood? - Exact. 552 00:58:29,291 --> 00:58:32,796 I would think it would be great if you came and you meet her. 553 00:58:32,916 --> 00:58:35,046 I would like that. That would be nice. 554 00:58:35,166 --> 00:58:40,057 Usually, this kind of person, we only encounter them in books.